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A new taboo: the sufferings


Let me share with you some thoughts that I'm doing, whether for specific situations at this time I happen to live in either the experience that the relationship with other takes me.

seems to me that at this historical moment you are going insane with the idea of \u200b\u200bresignation to suffering (perhaps the result of a misinterpretation of the Christian message) crazy idea, contrary to the delusion of being able to control life at all costs and then believe they can avoid suffering .

in a state of psychological distress, deep pain, sometimes so-called disability or terminal illness (period from the medical point of view inevitably leads to death), the most common attitude is to close , namely to avoid the painful condition.

the case of relations (marriage crisis or similar) you prefer to break the relationship before even attempting to understand why and wherefores , what this could lead to a questioning, a give up something ... and then of our suffering. If

it is existential distress, in times when we have to better define goals and priorities in our lives, we avoid the problem being to understand more, we prefer to take a trip, distract.

In the case of physical pain there is always a drug that covers the symptoms before it has time to fully manifest itself ... so you can hear what he has to say the disease. And, if the disease is severe or disabling ... better death.

Perhaps we are victims of a misunderstanding? Maybe the soap operas or the islands of the famous happy-we are conditioning?

I think the reason is much more serious. is forgotten or ignored, or denied the spiritual dimension of man and I believe that only in this dimension can give meaning to suffering.

always the man tries to understand and provide answers and / or solutions to pressing problems that disturb the mind, first and foremost own suffering and death. We can not accept, nor can it do so if the limit of his own human mind and not give themselves up to a reality that seems to him absurd and unacceptable and vice versa that is inherent with its own imperfection and limited.

With the New Age concept that was introduced and we are always with us that our behavior, our way of thinking, our actions create happiness or suffering in our lives and it was a broken lance in favor of the area of \u200b\u200bfreedom that every human being has in determining their destiny.

But you can not ignore the constraints created by the limits and possibilities of the family, social and cultural environment in which we have come to visit us, from the peculiarities of temperament, of the opportunities that life offers, from familiar with certain genetic diseases, environmental pollution, and more that would be long list.

So let us ask ourselves: what is the point to escape or worse deny the idea that suffering in life man? Grind our difficult days thinking that they are merely a parenthesis and that soon "everything will settle again" and we will still be serene and happy?

There is a state of blissful (or Boeotian?) To pursue happiness, recognizing him as the only one worth living: there is the man with all his human imperfection born and raised trying to develop the seed he has inside, that is trying to express himself in the uniqueness that is his.

And this has a price, an inherent difficulty. It is a path to do, more or less short, but where are all the information and food (Experiences) that you need. Sometimes there is so determined to go in a certain direction, despite several indications that life sends us here and it is possible that aid the body through a hardship or illness, to choose differently. Other times these emotions to keep us stuck and in this case, the suffering it causes can help to dissolve nodes or old grudges.

The suffering that comes from others is part of the route (misunderstandings, marriage crisis, separation, death ...) but it makes sense and belongs to us because we can process it and to grow up inside.

Choosing not to choose to suffer the same as not wanting to grow . Many, especially among the new young people, choose this with the help of pills, drugs, alcohol and anything else that might distract from the discomfort of the moment, until you get to see and unfortunately sometimes suicide to practice, conceived as the only solution to avoid suffering. The essay

Ecclesiastes (IV sec. BC) put into the mouth of King Solomon's words:

time to be born, time to die
time of planting, a time to uproot
time tear down, time to build
time to weep, a time to laugh
time of mourning, a time of revelry ...

(3, 1-4).

In every life there is this and that we live in a peaceful manner and to enable it to serve all our true, deep well-being.

Antoinette Bardellini
in Newspaper Association - April 2005

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When the dark moon ... Two words


When the moon pours her dark black

in the heart and mind off every impulse and passion
... You wait and see ...

get round the light and flowing crimson


life ... or the egg harvest the seed of your sun
you hear ... germinating in the womb
nine moons love

Frank Mailloux
in Newspaper Association - April 2005

Careers Involving Blood

sull'enneatipo 2

I recognize myself in the character or two Enneatypes that the "vice or passion and pride, and "virtue" is humility.

I took these two points to go look in my daily actions that make those automatic that I am not the action of my life, but in the reaction of my character. In practice this way of doing and being that automatically comes into action in the report without awareness, thus leaving I truly in my background, until it was convinced that my way of doing and acting is my true nature and not a response to a superstructure, so born from a need, in this case estimate, but still the superstructure and my not be true.

The character or two Enneatypes is also called the adjutant.

two types as I communicate a lot of approval and esteem from those helping others to believe in their value.

This seems like a good quality and very often is because we two heart of all that we do, but not for others, for ourselves, others are there because we can recognize such as a "estimate," through what we do, totally ignoring what we are.

The great temptation of type two is to help others continually escaping, thus, to himself.

Our identity lies in the desires and needs of others, as to require that others need us, and if they do not "get angry."

In this situation, I assure you that the world and life are not pink, but the paint as well, because if "is positive" all I can see better, but at heart there is a black hole and a frightening concern.

We are a safe place for others who you want to support, but we are absolutely capable of supporting or worse still the responsibility of others. This feeling is total darkness because you are unable to love, totally love that can be closed by the other to believe that "I have the power to do myself," I am powerful! ".

With this new awareness, when you start to recognize that the character is not me, or you start to leave as much as possible the reason and the strength to trust their heart in order to recognize each time when the character speaks for me to begin to be helping themselves, or ... There remains that "sick" more or less seriously, and learn to feel the need to be cared for, understood, loved, through the experience of touch to recognize the need to give ourselves what we give to others, to love each other directly without going through the others.

This is not easy because our inner life is a jumble of mixed feelings.

So what to do? We often say, 'Go where your heart takes you, "but I think that sometimes is not enough, because the heart can be found, in my opinion, water and fire, wish each other against, perhaps with data from our human nature and divine.

must learn to listen to these desires and recognize them as part of themselves, have the humility to say in honesty, "I'm not able" to understand what is happening and what I love for me is not true that I can make it alone, seek help, leaving second floor of the main character in me and all that entails being in the foreground, being the "first violin", the reference.

When you come to feel that we are contained within the hardness of the stone and the fluidity of water, now is the time to learn to be desired really well for us and begin to discern and choose.

Good and Evil is not in things or even worse in others, but in my actions. I can use them to grow in freedom or slavery.

How many times have we experienced that things done in the name of the goods they produced bad, but worse?

We two types with our need to help and give glory to life. This happens without being aware!

For the other we are good, the reliable, honest, in other words, what we did believe we can help, by putting completely at the service of our character, making use of the character, to get back we can recognize and respect through them, using them.

Only in the awareness of my way of being I am able to understand that I can be "served" on my character instead of being at his disposal, so I saw a way out: the road "humility," that is the acceptance that I am so, good ? shining? Slave of my actions? I can not help but recognize it and accept it without judging me, the truth is that my character helped me to grow up and live the best we can judge my life and I only bring evil to get away from me. Not recognizing that in all these years I often lived well, putting in first-person game in no way "wrong", but still within the limits of my humanity than with the goodness of my character.

All this makes me feel warmth in my heart and not thinking rational evaluation, because of these feelings are more at peace. Other

and things are as they are, and especially their task is not to be helped and sometimes changed by me to satisfy my desire to be good, good and predictable to be loved. Instead we

two we need to learn to expose ourselves to another with honesty, simplicity and no tricks, learning how to receive the gift of sharing and love, without having to be the best, really communicate how we without satisfying a way of being but Being; only way to regain the esteem in us through the things we do, so we can issue a bit 'more naturally to the relationship and love, the only cure for a life full of health.

Concetta Brachino
in Newspaper Association - April 2005

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The optimistic (yet sull'enneagramma)

The type identified by the number seven is characterized by an evident desire to live with having fun and enjoying all the more imperative or less aware of avoid pain. The seven

then people are sociable, outgoing, funny, curious, interesting and give off joy and optimism. They know

enthusiasm, make plans for the future, send around him the impression that there is always something to cheer about, having a sense of humor and infectious laugh even know him. Where there is a seven children around him.

In their joyfulness and playfulness there is no room for melancholy thoughts or "serious." They are great companions and friends of adventure. But as they tend to look only at the positive side of things, other people consider them to be so very friendly but somewhat superficial.

seven types feel the need to avoid anything that is unpleasant even if the deal could mean an increase for themselves and an improvement in their results.

The escape from pain leads them instead to a form of self-indulgence that results in absolutely sterile compulsive drive to make projects and plans for the future, rather than a serious effort to solve everyday problems.

'm so taken by the curiosity and enthusiasm for the beautiful things they could do that more often neglect the more modest who are there at their fingertips. For the seven types

like to talk, tell stories, make people laugh and entertain others, and invest their energies in this because, if only for him to "feel" instead of talking, do and have fun, all their inner emptiness or pain in childhood would float and starts screaming.

fact that a seven behind his playfulness is a great need to be loved and accepted as is.

is the problem of everyone, we have already said, and everyone tries to address and resolve it with a unique strategy (its Enneatypes).

The strategy of the seven is to deny the pain, his defense is "rationalization" of emotions. It calls to mind that do not have to deal with their feelings. Faced with the death of someone dear to him will hear him say: "Now I certainly do not suffer anymore."

is a way to keep a distance, check with the mind that feels too heavy to bear on an emotional level or in childhood because he lived in great pain and fear that something will awaken from the outside, or vice versa because he lived a 'happy and secure childhood and believes he can maintain this state of bliss for a lifetime.

not really expect anyone else being aware of how "fake" his well-being.

Typically a report is true and that puts him in deep crisis, unless they flee before it come true!

The comparison with the other fact makes bare his narcissism, the need to seduce, superficiality and lack of perseverance.

Which path can take a seven who wants to get out of his trap, choosing to live authentically, out of her automatic? First

recognize his "vice" (the throat) and the "virtue" that is opposed and must be cultivated, namely sobriety, then practicing such attitudes:

• appreciate every moment with what is good creative and can offer;
• pursue our commitments, without looking for excuses or distractions;
• listen to those who suffer without the need to see things in the light most optimistic;
• accept suffering as a contribution to the human and spiritual development;
• experience the silence and meditation as an opportunity to enter more deeply into themselves and things;
• love life as it is and celebrate it with joy but not at the expense of its dark side.

Good work friends and friends dell'enneatipo seven !

Antoinette Bardellini
from Newspaper Association - April 2005