The type identified by the number seven is characterized by an evident desire to live with having fun and enjoying all the more imperative or less aware of avoid pain. The seven then people are sociable, outgoing, funny, curious, interesting and give off joy and optimism. They know
enthusiasm, make plans for the future, send around him the impression that there is always something to cheer about, having a sense of humor and infectious laugh even know him. Where there is a seven children around him.
In their joyfulness and playfulness there is no room for melancholy thoughts or "serious." They are great companions and friends of adventure. But as they tend to look only at the positive side of things, other people consider them to be so very friendly but somewhat superficial.
seven types feel the need to avoid anything that is unpleasant even if the deal could mean an increase for themselves and an improvement in their results.
The escape from pain leads them instead to a form of self-indulgence that results in absolutely sterile compulsive drive to make projects and plans for the future, rather than a serious effort to solve everyday problems.
'm so taken by the curiosity and enthusiasm for the beautiful things they could do that more often neglect the more modest who are there at their fingertips. For the seven types
like to talk, tell stories, make people laugh and entertain others, and invest their energies in this because, if only for him to "feel" instead of talking, do and have fun, all their inner emptiness or pain in childhood would float and starts screaming.
fact that a seven behind his playfulness is a great need to be loved and accepted as is.
is the problem of everyone, we have already said, and everyone tries to address and resolve it with a unique strategy (its Enneatypes).
The strategy of the seven is to deny the pain, his defense is "rationalization" of emotions. It calls to mind that do not have to deal with their feelings. Faced with the death of someone dear to him will hear him say: "Now I certainly do not suffer anymore."
is a way to keep a distance, check with the mind that feels too heavy to bear on an emotional level or in childhood because he lived in great pain and fear that something will awaken from the outside, or vice versa because he lived a 'happy and secure childhood and believes he can maintain this state of bliss for a lifetime.
not really expect anyone else being aware of how "fake" his well-being.
Typically a report is true and that puts him in deep crisis, unless they flee before it come true!
The comparison with the other fact makes bare his narcissism, the need to seduce, superficiality and lack of perseverance.
Which path can take a seven who wants to get out of his trap, choosing to live authentically, out of her automatic? First
recognize his "vice" (the throat) and the "virtue" that is opposed and must be cultivated, namely sobriety, then practicing such attitudes:
- appreciate every moment with what is good creative and can offer;
- pursue our commitments, without looking for excuses or distractions;
- listen to those who suffer without the need to see things in the light most optimistic;
- accept suffering as a contribution to the human and spiritual development;
- experience the silence and meditation as an opportunity to enter more deeply into themselves and things;
- love life as it is and celebrate it with joy but not at the expense of its dark side.
Antoinette Bardellini
from Newspaper Association - April 2005
from Newspaper Association - April 2005
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