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A new taboo: the sufferings


Let me share with you some thoughts that I'm doing, whether for specific situations at this time I happen to live in either the experience that the relationship with other takes me.

seems to me that at this historical moment you are going insane with the idea of \u200b\u200bresignation to suffering (perhaps the result of a misinterpretation of the Christian message) crazy idea, contrary to the delusion of being able to control life at all costs and then believe they can avoid suffering .

in a state of psychological distress, deep pain, sometimes so-called disability or terminal illness (period from the medical point of view inevitably leads to death), the most common attitude is to close , namely to avoid the painful condition.

the case of relations (marriage crisis or similar) you prefer to break the relationship before even attempting to understand why and wherefores , what this could lead to a questioning, a give up something ... and then of our suffering. If

it is existential distress, in times when we have to better define goals and priorities in our lives, we avoid the problem being to understand more, we prefer to take a trip, distract.

In the case of physical pain there is always a drug that covers the symptoms before it has time to fully manifest itself ... so you can hear what he has to say the disease. And, if the disease is severe or disabling ... better death.

Perhaps we are victims of a misunderstanding? Maybe the soap operas or the islands of the famous happy-we are conditioning?

I think the reason is much more serious. is forgotten or ignored, or denied the spiritual dimension of man and I believe that only in this dimension can give meaning to suffering.

always the man tries to understand and provide answers and / or solutions to pressing problems that disturb the mind, first and foremost own suffering and death. We can not accept, nor can it do so if the limit of his own human mind and not give themselves up to a reality that seems to him absurd and unacceptable and vice versa that is inherent with its own imperfection and limited.

With the New Age concept that was introduced and we are always with us that our behavior, our way of thinking, our actions create happiness or suffering in our lives and it was a broken lance in favor of the area of \u200b\u200bfreedom that every human being has in determining their destiny.

But you can not ignore the constraints created by the limits and possibilities of the family, social and cultural environment in which we have come to visit us, from the peculiarities of temperament, of the opportunities that life offers, from familiar with certain genetic diseases, environmental pollution, and more that would be long list.

So let us ask ourselves: what is the point to escape or worse deny the idea that suffering in life man? Grind our difficult days thinking that they are merely a parenthesis and that soon "everything will settle again" and we will still be serene and happy?

There is a state of blissful (or Boeotian?) To pursue happiness, recognizing him as the only one worth living: there is the man with all his human imperfection born and raised trying to develop the seed he has inside, that is trying to express himself in the uniqueness that is his.

And this has a price, an inherent difficulty. It is a path to do, more or less short, but where are all the information and food (Experiences) that you need. Sometimes there is so determined to go in a certain direction, despite several indications that life sends us here and it is possible that aid the body through a hardship or illness, to choose differently. Other times these emotions to keep us stuck and in this case, the suffering it causes can help to dissolve nodes or old grudges.

The suffering that comes from others is part of the route (misunderstandings, marriage crisis, separation, death ...) but it makes sense and belongs to us because we can process it and to grow up inside.

Choosing not to choose to suffer the same as not wanting to grow . Many, especially among the new young people, choose this with the help of pills, drugs, alcohol and anything else that might distract from the discomfort of the moment, until you get to see and unfortunately sometimes suicide to practice, conceived as the only solution to avoid suffering. The essay

Ecclesiastes (IV sec. BC) put into the mouth of King Solomon's words:

time to be born, time to die
time of planting, a time to uproot
time tear down, time to build
time to weep, a time to laugh
time of mourning, a time of revelry ...

(3, 1-4).

In every life there is this and that we live in a peaceful manner and to enable it to serve all our true, deep well-being.

Antoinette Bardellini
in Newspaper Association - April 2005