I recognize myself in the character or two Enneatypes that the "vice or passion and pride, and "virtue" is humility. I took these two points to go look in my daily actions that make those automatic that I am not the action of my life, but in the reaction of my character. In practice this way of doing and being that automatically comes into action in the report without awareness, thus leaving I truly in my background, until it was convinced that my way of doing and acting is my true nature and not a response to a superstructure, so born from a need, in this case estimate, but still the superstructure and my not be true.
The character or two Enneatypes is also called the adjutant.
two types as I communicate a lot of approval and esteem from those helping others to believe in their value.
This seems like a good quality and very often is because we two heart of all that we do, but not for others, for ourselves, others are there because we can recognize such as a "estimate," through what we do, totally ignoring what we are.
The great temptation of type two is to help others continually escaping, thus, to himself.
Our identity lies in the desires and needs of others, as to require that others need us, and if they do not "get angry."
In this situation, I assure you that the world and life are not pink, but the paint as well, because if "is positive" all I can see better, but at heart there is a black hole and a frightening concern.
We are a safe place for others who you want to support, but we are absolutely capable of supporting or worse still the responsibility of others. This feeling is total darkness because you are unable to love, totally love that can be closed by the other to believe that "I have the power to do myself," I am powerful! ".
With this new awareness, when you start to recognize that the character is not me, or you start to leave as much as possible the reason and the strength to trust their heart in order to recognize each time when the character speaks for me to begin to be helping themselves, or ... There remains that "sick" more or less seriously, and learn to feel the need to be cared for, understood, loved, through the experience of touch to recognize the need to give ourselves what we give to others, to love each other directly without going through the others.
This is not easy because our inner life is a jumble of mixed feelings.
So what to do? We often say, 'Go where your heart takes you, "but I think that sometimes is not enough, because the heart can be found, in my opinion, water and fire, wish each other against, perhaps with data from our human nature and divine.
must learn to listen to these desires and recognize them as part of themselves, have the humility to say in honesty, "I'm not able" to understand what is happening and what I love for me is not true that I can make it alone, seek help, leaving second floor of the main character in me and all that entails being in the foreground, being the "first violin", the reference.
When you come to feel that we are contained within the hardness of the stone and the fluidity of water, now is the time to learn to be desired really well for us and begin to discern and choose.
Good and Evil is not in things or even worse in others, but in my actions. I can use them to grow in freedom or slavery.
How many times have we experienced that things done in the name of the goods they produced bad, but worse?
We two types with our need to help and give glory to life. This happens without being aware!
For the other we are good, the reliable, honest, in other words, what we did believe we can help, by putting completely at the service of our character, making use of the character, to get back we can recognize and respect through them, using them.
Only in the awareness of my way of being I am able to understand that I can be "served" on my character instead of being at his disposal, so I saw a way out: the road "humility," that is the acceptance that I am so, good ? shining? Slave of my actions? I can not help but recognize it and accept it without judging me, the truth is that my character helped me to grow up and live the best we can judge my life and I only bring evil to get away from me. Not recognizing that in all these years I often lived well, putting in first-person game in no way "wrong", but still within the limits of my humanity than with the goodness of my character.
All this makes me feel warmth in my heart and not thinking rational evaluation, because of these feelings are more at peace. Other
and things are as they are, and especially their task is not to be helped and sometimes changed by me to satisfy my desire to be good, good and predictable to be loved. Instead we
two we need to learn to expose ourselves to another with honesty, simplicity and no tricks, learning how to receive the gift of sharing and love, without having to be the best, really communicate how we without satisfying a way of being but Being; only way to regain the esteem in us through the things we do, so we can issue a bit 'more naturally to the relationship and love, the only cure for a life full of health.
Concetta Brachino
in Newspaper Association - April 2005
in Newspaper Association - April 2005
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